How to be the perfect girlfriend

The above is a comical video about how to be the perfect girlfriend.

While it contains some elements of truth, it is best to take it with a pinch of salt. That's my opinion anyway.

A perfect girlfriend is not just about loving you dearly, but someone who has real prudence and depth within her that impresses you greatly.

Some people just call it the "X-factor".

Yet the perfect girlfriend must be fun loving, and enjoys being sexy at most times.

Not only that, the perfect girlfriend must not be naggy, and have high tolerance with patience towards you.

On the looks side, the perfect girlfriend does not need to look like a celebrity, but presentable enough for you to love her.

Kindness and gentleness is a must for the perfect girlfriend!

The perfect girlfriend is almost a deity! Probably like Arwen in the Lord of the Rings.

As you can see, my opinions about the perfect girlfriend are just opinions.

And when guys are first struck madly in love, they usually forget all about the standards they set for themselves, and imagine that their love is a deity.

So to me, can the vast majority be the perfect girlfriend? Yes, as the perfect girlfriend is relative to every different guys' needs.

It's about choosing what kind of a boyfriend you are looking for, and you just need to be confident about being one.

The number one thing that deters any girl from being the perfect girlfriend is trying too hard to become one.

Sometimes, guys are fools, and they aren't able to see for themselves who is truly good for them.

So don't judge yourself on what your current boyfriend or some guys' opinions of you. We can be fools.

Currently, I have a girfrlend, and she is still my first and only girlfriend till now.

Yet, I knew no better, and I broke up with her once. You can read all about my account in my eBook if you want here.

Hence, if you do find that your relationship is failing, and you love your boyfriend very much but he doesn't reciprocate the love back, he may be a fool.

Don't use your rejection as your reason to doubt yourself.

We grow, and there are flaws that needs time for us to grow out of it.

So take your time to look around and grow, in wisdom, beauty and prudence.

For example, guys usually don't like whiny or naggy girls, and you may be aware of your flaws.

Don't disqualify yourself from love just because you have flaws. We guys may pick our nose while noone else is looking.

Instead, look around, and be always learning in life to grow in wisdom, prudence and beauty.

If you are too hard on yourself, most probably you will be frustrated with yourself and your love relationships.

You want to be the perfect girlfriend to enjoy to the fullest in your love relationship.

Just love to the fullest, and learn how to express your love well. It should impress your boyfriend and he will learn to express his love to you back in return.

If he doesn't, he may be at the stage where he needs to outgrow his flaws. And there is nothing you can do about it; but just don't doubt yourself in love.

So what do you think the perfect girlfriend should be?